Couples gone stale

Couples gone stale

Why the games between couples? You have all heard about the book that says men and women do not think or act the same. This is about the most important thing you can ever learn. Let the games begin.

Women love to be held and snuggled. They love to know they are appreciated and not taken for granted. It’s easy for women to be taken for granted because they are the ones who run the home and everybody in it. Women are the ones that create the sense of happiness and set the pace.

Life is so fast paced that you and your loved one in your relationship of being married or single gets lost in all the hustle and bustle of everyday living.

Romance and intimacy can sometimes be thrown away for a fast bang, slam thank you mam if you ever get a thank you. Stop! Life does not have to be like this. What happened to the romance and caring in your relationship?

If you have been married for years and feel like you are being taken for granted?

If you don’t feel any gentle or soft moments between you and your loved one, what is the use for staying in the relationship? Why not try to fix your relationship before you give away all that money to an attorney or whatever type of break you will have?

If you feel you can’t communicate anymore start at the beginning. What was the attraction for each other in the first place?

Hugs and kisses work

Surprise your loved one with a touch of the hand when least expected. When your loved one is leaving the home instead of saying goodbye from across the room walk over to that person and give him/her a hug. Really hug the person so you take him/her by surprise. Believe me that person will be surprised.

Try and make an attempt to touch and caress at every opportunity. When your special person starts to mimic your gestures, you know that both of you have been starved for affection and didn’t realize it. 

Linda Meckler author, copyright updated 2017